I often find that many people think my life here is quite extreneous, adventerous, or completely out there so I thought I would take short post to clear the air on some common misconceptions.
1.) I do not live in a mud hut.
-in fact I live in a very nice house, with a bed, a fridge, a washing machine, and a fan. (granted some people in this house of a.c. I do not, it as if I sleep everynight on heating blanket, as well as in a sauna.
2.) I do not eat african food everyday.
-in fact I rarely eat african food, rice or to with sauce is served everywhere and I would rather treat it as a treat than an everyday occurrence ;-) I do however love, passionately, going to the market to pick up my fresh fruits, veggies, and herbs. I have become quit the 'Rachel Ray', the things Africa forces you to do.
3.) Not all africans like white people.
-in fact they tell alot of the children that white people will eat them so I often find myself going over to a child only to watch them run away screaming as the mothers all stand around and laugh.
4.) Being a white person does not always give you advantages.
-in fact, I often find myself being taken advantage of when shopping. The other day I went to the largest market in Ouaga with my Burkinabe friend Debora and she asked the price for a necklace she thought was nice, he said 'for you 500cfa but for her 3,000 cfa. Obviously being a white person gives very little help in situations like this.
5.) Not everyday life in Africa is an Adventure.
-in fact I often find myself wondering what to do with the rest of my afternoon.
6.) I do not always feel clean or comfortable.
-in fact the only feeling good (physically) I do is covered in sweat, I cannot walk from the shower to my room (5 ft.) without being covered in sweat once again.
7.) I am NOT fluent in french.
-in fact I face days where I wonder if I ever even took a french class.
So there are just a few of the realities of life here, everyday indeed has a gift of it's own and everyday I find myself falling more and more in love with this place, everyday it becomes more and more of 'home' to me but the realities of life don't just leave because you move to another country, and that is a lesson I have been figuring out since the moment I stepped on this soil.
Sunday, October 4, 2009
When 2 Worlds Collide!
Today I woke up, put on a pretty dress and went to Ouaga 2000 for church.
Today I looked around at the vast riches stocked in homes that surrounded me, and marveled at their splendor.
Today I also looked into the eyes of children who were estatic that a white person had come to visit their small brick hut they call 'home'
Today I watched as a baby slept soundly in the comforting arms of protection and a future.
And today I held the hands of children whose future was tomorrow, hoping they would make it that long.
Today was a collision, a place where 2 worlds met, and I was the common thread. I lived today on each end of the spectrum, a place where there is no fear of losing, and a place where there is no guarantee of living.
Today I watched as my dear friend Debora, a burkinabe herself, was heart broken over the poor conditions in which these children live. To hear the words come from her mouth that how they survive is unimaginable and to watch her eyes fill with compassion over the little girl she supports from church broke my heart in two. She told me that for them, it is not possible to bathe every week (not to mention eat, we just happened to see a filthy little boy come running in), it isn't even possible for them to buy enough water to last them that long (25 cfa, the equivalent of .50).
It broke my heart and opened my eyes once again to the realities of where I am. Yes, this is Africa, the place so many dream of coming, but to those who live here this is home, the only place they will ever know. I have, with a very heavy heart realized that I cannot help every single person I see (though I have tried, just ask my roommates about the people who come to the door selling stuff), but to help just one here and one there makes all the difference in the world. To sit and share time with these belovedly beautiful people forever changes them and me as well. Katdafame (Deboras 'little sister') will always remember the day a 'Nasara' (white person, also my name in any outskirt area of town) came to visit her home, sat on her makeshift chair and took pictures of her and her friends. Even if I am here to only make a difference in little ways like that I know that I am being used by God.
Today was a collision, a place where 2 worlds met, and I was the common thread. I lived today on each end of the spectrum, a place where there is no fear of losing, and a place where there is no guarantee of living.
Today I watched as my dear friend Debora, a burkinabe herself, was heart broken over the poor conditions in which these children live. To hear the words come from her mouth that how they survive is unimaginable and to watch her eyes fill with compassion over the little girl she supports from church broke my heart in two. She told me that for them, it is not possible to bathe every week (not to mention eat, we just happened to see a filthy little boy come running in), it isn't even possible for them to buy enough water to last them that long (25 cfa, the equivalent of .50).
It broke my heart and opened my eyes once again to the realities of where I am. Yes, this is Africa, the place so many dream of coming, but to those who live here this is home, the only place they will ever know. I have, with a very heavy heart realized that I cannot help every single person I see (though I have tried, just ask my roommates about the people who come to the door selling stuff), but to help just one here and one there makes all the difference in the world. To sit and share time with these belovedly beautiful people forever changes them and me as well. Katdafame (Deboras 'little sister') will always remember the day a 'Nasara' (white person, also my name in any outskirt area of town) came to visit her home, sat on her makeshift chair and took pictures of her and her friends. Even if I am here to only make a difference in little ways like that I know that I am being used by God.
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
The Spice of Life
So much has been going on lately and I have not been able to find the time (or the internet capacity for that matter) to catch everyone up, so here's a little time filler until I can write about some of the more serious things happening in Ouaga.
We recently had a "Game Night" for all of our friends who are in their 20's, we made lots of delicious food, and played Apples to Apples, Liar's dice, and Gender Bender.
Some of our friends: Above is Fred and Matt both here long term. Matt is drilling wells in the villages around Ouaga and Fred, along with his wife, work at the Pan-Bila ministry.
Also: Micheal and Tyler, Micheal and His wife are expecting a baby in February, they are living and working in Pissy. Tyler has been here for almost 4 years working with a children s outreach organization, focusing on the tomato can boys.
Two of my favorite people; Olivia (L) and Sarah, they both recently just arrived in Ouaga and are spending 6-9 months working out in Yako with Lynn Peters and her school and orphanage (where the Wired youth group will be going at the end of October).
Tiffany (L) who is pregnant, she is Micheal's wife and she is also a nurse, working at a clinic out in Pissy, and Susan (my dearly beloved roomie).
Sarah, my other favorite roomie and Natajina (with the horrid expression on her face, trying to avoid the camera) She grew up here in Burkina along with Fred and they are now married, working at Pan Bila.
Game Night also happened to be Tiffany's 25th Birthday, so we had a little party on the side! (It's unfortunate that you cannot see her 'candles' aka mathes stuck in the cake to look like candles)
On to some other interesting facts of life here in Ouage, everyday I find something new about the culture, wheter it be fascinating or horrifying there is always a surprise with each new day and below I wil tell you about a few.
One thing I have loved is watching the storms roll in, the other day when I was out at Dorcas house a storm began to come and what a phennoniman it was to watch it come in over the vast desert where nothing is standing in it's way.
Dorcas House
This is the new border mark around Dorcas house, 2 weeks ago the mission almost lost the property (for reasons that are too complicated for me to understand or explain), all that matters is that by prayer and God's provision the property was more than doubled!
This is the view from the new marker, the Dorcas house is dead ahead, and if you look in both directions at some what of a diagonal each way you will see the magnitude of the new property. (Basically to the left, way past that tree and on back.)
With all this new property there are many propositions for what can be done. Previously the money was covered for the wall to surround the entire property, giving the girls protection, security and rights to the land. But now that all this new property has fallen into our laps we need double the amount of walls. There is also talk of a livestock farm, including sheep, cows, pigs, chickens and fish. This will enable the girls to learn to care for and prepare animals for sale. There is also hopes of more dorms to enable a larger group of girls to attend, and to allow the first year girls a second year of trades. A Moringua field is going to be planted here, Moringa is the 'good for all' leaf that is harvested off the trees, dried and then made into a spice. It helps with malnutrition along with a list of many other things.
Below is a picture of every girl with their name tag for anyone and everyone who wants to see the faces of the girls whose lives are being changed. (I hope in the very near future to add each girls story to their picture, so be looking for that to come).
A few products made by the Dorcas House girls:
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